Thursday, July 23, 2009



Kavya Madhavan’s make-belief world did not tally

By O.J.George
Kottayam: The much-hyped marriage of celebrated actress Kavya Madhavan is in totters within a few months of her wedlock.Family lives going berserk are quite common. But the lives of celebrities breaking up are flush with unparalleled curiosity.Thank God the departure is before children are born to them. Otherwise, the children would have been the hardest hit and the worst suffering.Too much expectation on the part of both spouses easily creates discomfort. Dream lives are far from reality. Even reality shows are not the depiction of the real world.Regarding Kavya Madhavan, a lot of stories were given to the fans. That Nishal Chandra being a child artiste himself was not unaware of the make-belief world of tinseldom.Now it seems Kavya Madhavan and Nishal Chandra had not achieved familiarization. There should have been much counseling on the part of elders on both sides about the pitfalls waiting for celebrities in married life.There would be a lot of explaining on the part of both spouses and their relatives regarding the wrong doings of either.One reason now touted is that Nishal Chandra lost his job. Is that a reason for breaking up. “Love is not love that alters when it alteration finds”. After entering into wedlock, cribbing about job loss and lack of income for a much-earned actress looks ridiculous.Definitely there would be other reasons. Naturally, they would explain these things in court.More than that, to tally with the provisions of the law to get the seal of approval for a divorce, either parties would resort to a pack of lies. That is quite common in divorce proceedings.Perhaps, Kavya Madhavan wanted her to be treated like a toy. Or Nishal Chandra was treating her like a toy. There would be unfairness on the part of both.Now that they have no children they can proceed with whatever is their wish. But the fans have been taken aback.

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